I am posting this on both blogs so if you read one, you've already read this. 
This is my theme for the year.  Starting now....I am getting rid of  stuff.  I've cleaned off my desk area.  And cleaned out kitchen  cabinets.  And started on bookshelves (this one is hard since I am  mildly addicted to books).   Things of sentimental value are safe    Things we use regularly are safe.  Things that I have to dust and that  is the only time I notice them are GONE!!!  I am boxing things up to  have a big yard sale this spring.
I was inspired by this post  I read on the Happy Housewife's website.  Her theme for the year is  also to simplify.  The same day, the boys broke the second of their  Christmas gifts (they lasted less than a month) and I decided to put ALL  the toys up.  Then Shane sent me this link on "minimalistic toys."    The boys have had only a couple toys out for almost a week and we  have no tv (only movies).  School has gone better, we've had less  fighting, and the toys they have are being taken care of.  All the other  toys are still in a closet for rotation...but they aren't necessarily  going to last long...I am going to be doing some careful weeding.
I have been trying to use Flylady  to keep my house clean.  But she is not working for me.  I like many of  her principles.  "You are not behind.  Do not try to catch up."  "Do a  little bit every day" and "You can not organize clutter...you have to  get rid of it"  (These are paraphrased).  So I am taking her advice and  unsubscribing from her emails.  The "inbox clutter" her millions of  emails every day creates is not worth it.  I can not organize them...I  do  not read them...not even the reminder ones...so they are going.   Sorry Flylady.
In her post,  The Happy Housewife mentioned the Motivated Mom's Planner.  I am going  to get this.    It is $8 and it is a chore planner.  (If you follow the  link above you can use the $1 off coupon code). You can get it on a  weekly or daily basis (daily has a little agenda spot) in a full size or  half size.  You can even get one with daily Bible readings to read  through the Bible in a year.  Unlike Flylady,  you download the ebook  and then print each week/day page and then you have a checklist.  I like  this.  It is not computer based and I won't be inundated with emails  each day.  Bible time is something I really need to work on and I have  something to check off when I do it that day.  Plus, I LOVE LISTS!  I  love checking things off.  Sometimes I am making a list to get ready for  something and I put things on it that are already done just to cross  them off.  I hope this will work for me.
Part of my goal is to  make/save some money.  We would like to build a substantial savings  account in the next few months...I'm hopeful that living simply will  help contribute to that savings.
As I think about simplifying  our life, it is a daunting task.  We are so connected to our stuff and  our habits.  Since it is such a HUGE thing to do, I am breaking it up  into "baby steps " (stolen from Flylady who I really do like except for  the emails).  I am setting many small personal goals.  As I get them  figured out and into place in my mind, I will share.  Right now, I am  just purging...if it isn't nailed down it is under scrutiny.  And it  feels great!!!
 
I have a separate email just for Flylady and I only check it when I need to read some testimonials and be inspired. It has tens of thousands of emails. haha. I have found it helpful to Like the official Flylady site on facebook. That way as I read my newsfeed I might notice a Clean Your Sinks or a Getting Ready for Tomorrow or a What's for Supper as I'm reading along.
ReplyDeleteI keep my newsfeed free of junk like I hide every application--farmville, quizzes, all that nonsense and sometimes I even hide people if they post a billion Likes a day and clutter up my newsfeed.
~Shelley